• When using a dental dam, think of your tongue as an active force for applying pressure, and also integrate your gums and teeth into the action. In terms of the first kiss, you'll want to use the ice-cream lick described earlier, but when you reach her clitoral head, instead of brushing over it lightly with your tongue, softly press the flat surface of your front teeth against it.
When you are using a dental dam, it would be a bald-faced lie to say that your abilities as a cunnilinguist are not somewhat handicapped; they most certainly are, roughly by a factor of about 30 to 40 percent. It's hard to make up for the loss of a wet, unfettered tongue and the electrifying sensations that it can deliver with the gentlest of touch. But it's by no means impossible. You have to work within new limitations and compensate with creativity and perseverance. Know and accept your limitations at the outset, and you'll be able to make up for them in other gratifying ways.
